Hmmm.....I was debating about wading into this debate as I'm a man....LOL! So whatever I say should be viewed as coming from a man.

I think that both women and men are in a state of flux in how they relate to one another and that the pendulum has swung to over compensate in some areas. For example, I went to give up my seat for a lady on a tram and was absolutely abused yelling that her legs were just as strong as mine etc. Hey, I was just trying to be courteous....not commenting on the strength of her legs. What this does is bring confusion to mere males like myself. Should I or shouldn't I? Personally....I just keep on giving up my seat.

I think that women shouldn't lose their feminity in an effort to be "successful". Likewise men shouldn't lose their masculinity in order to show love and affection. I believe that we are all 3 dimensional not just stereotypical TV cookie cutter copies of what the perfect male or female should be.

I only know one thing for sure....my wife is my best friend and an inspiration to me. She's gentle but firm, strong but sexy, driven but spontaneous and most of all....she loves me

I went through a time where I too felt I 'needed' a man in my life - how could I manage alone? But in choosing to be on my own through some very difficult times, I have grown more. I have discovered that I CAN make it, I have really realized who I am and who I want to be! I have had to dig deep within myself, and lean on God for courage and strength, but it has all been worth it! Ultimately, I believe most men and women need EACH OTHER! It is great to be independent, and do things for yourself at times, but I also think the companionship, love, and caring you get from a partner is so wonderful! When the time is right, God will show me the way! But for right now, I am just happy being me!